
I recently signed Merrick up for an 8 week session of soccer lessons. Every Saturday, bright and early at 9AM, we meet with about 25 other 3-5 year olds for a half hour of pure joy, love of competition and passion for the game. Except, not exactly like that. Don't let these soccer moms fool you. Here's how it really goes down...
1) They really wanted to torture the parents, so they decided practice would take place on a field strategically located right smack in the middle of two amazingly fun-looking play structures. I mean clearly, what 3 year old child would be interested in play structures when you have the opportunity to listen to a coach drill soccer technique into your head?
2) Never underestimate the intimidation power of a group of 3-5 year olds. I would say out of the group, about 1/3 of the kids had already done this before and knew the drill, therefore were not shy in the least when it came to getting out there on the field and interacting. The other 2/3? A combination of crying because they didn't want to play, crying because they wanted to be on the play structure, crying just to cry, you get the drift. Merrick all in all did pretty good...he wasn't crying, but I did have to hold his hand during the entire lesson. We were attached at the hip.
3) Throw the idea of rules completely out the window. During a session of practicing dribbling and then kicking into the goal, Merrick decided - why on earth would you kick the ball into the goal when you can just pick it up and walk it in? So that's exactly what he did. And continued to do the rest of the lesson.
All in all, I think after a few sessions he'll start to get into it a little more. My M.O. is to bribe him -- if he participates in the soccer session, I'll let him play on the structures after the lesson is over. Certainly I don't want to force him into anything he's not excited about....but I at least want to get my money's worth for this session!